Mother Mary
About Mother Mary
The Madonna of Vailankanni is the Mother of God. The Glory of the Blessed Mother is seen and experienced all over the world. Remember what she said at Cana, “Do whatever He tells you” and Her Son’s word she echoed at Fatima: “The time is fulfilled…repent and believe in the Gospel” and again the words: “Come to me all you that labor and are overburdened and I will give you rest” (Mt 11: 28). We the suffering who feel attracted by the perspective of “relief” which the Divine physician offers should respond with hope through Annai Vailankanni. Sometimes it is physical relief. More often it is spiritual healing too. As we have crossed the threshold of Silver Jubilee year, our hearts are filled with thanksgiving for all the showers of blessings through the intercession of Our Heavenly Mother.
“All generations will call me blessed”: “The Church’s devotion to the Blessed Virgin is intrinsic to Christian worship.” The Church rightly honors “the Blessed Virgin with special devotion. From the most ancient times the Blessed Virgin has been honored with the title of ‘Mother of God,’ to whose protection the faithful fly in all their dangers and needs. . . . This very special devotion . . . differs essentially from the adoration to Christ.
Throughout history down to the present day, men have given expression to their quest for God in their religious beliefs and behavior: in their prayers, sacrifices, rituals, meditations, and so forth.
Why should we love Our Lady?
Any reader of the gospels can see the intimacy of the son/mother relationship between Jesus and Mother Mary. If He is the ideal man, then He must have been the ideal Son. If He was the ideal Son, then He must have loved his mother with a love that was warm and deep and true.
Being a Christian means being a person “conformed to the image of Christ”, having a Christ-like personality, having his values, loving as He loved. The closer our conformity, the more intimate our union with Christ, the better we will be as Christians. But how can we claim to be conformed to his image unless like him we have a love for Mother Mary that is genuine and filial, a love we express by our words and deeds?
Without such a love, our Christianity will always be incomplete.
What is so special about Her?
The Gospel of St. Luke records Mother Mary’s reaction to God’s call, how she reached out beyond herself and her natural limitations to accept God’s word and submit to him.
Her reply, “Behold the handmaid of the Lord, be it done unto me according to your word, “came from her loving trust in God whom she had neither seen nor touched. She courageously surrendered to him and by that surrender enabled him to do great things for her and through her.
We too are called to believe, to trust and to put ourselves in God’s hands. We all know how hard it is to do that. We lack courage, we give with reservations, we are worried by doubts. But not Mother Mary. She not only gave herself to God but she never retracted that offering. There was no change of mind, no rationalizing doubts about her vocation when sorrow and difficulty came, no turning back.
True, God gave her grace to do all this. But He gives us grace too and we fail sometimes. That is why Mother Mary is so special
Why Mother Mary is called “Mother of God”?
Mary is called Mother of God because Jesus Christ, her Son, who was born of her as man, is not only man, but is also truly God. Mary is not a “goddess”. She is as human as our own mothers. The big difference lies in the sons – Mother Mary’s Son and our mother’s sons.
Mary’s Son is the Son of God. Our mothers’ sons are human, very human. How true then were the words of the cousin Elizabeth when she greeted Mother Mary in the Gospel,
Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb. And why is this granted me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me?
How true our words are when we say, “Holy Mother Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death”.Mary indeed is the Mother of God!
How can we pray to Mother Mary when St. Paul tells us that Jesus Christ is the “one Mediator between God and men”?
Jesus Christ is indeed our principal Mediator. However, there may be secondary mediators. Mother Mary is one of these mediators.
The practice of asking the prayers of others (secondary mediators) is common sense. We have all asked friends to speak on our behalf at some time or other. It may be to obtain an increase in our salary or to find a place in a kindergarten for one of the children or to get a good price on something we are buying. In praying to Mother Mary, we are asking her to speak to her Son on our behalf. So He is still the principal Mediator with God.
Further, Mother Mary has the God-given role of mother – Mother of Christ and Mother of all who are united to him. Just as Jesus sought her comfort and care during his life on earth, so we who follow him should also turn to her in our needs, confident of her motherly concern for us.
We can pray directly to God, why do we need to go through Mother Mary?
This is a good question, except for one thing. It fails to recognize that we are sinners!
Prayer prayed by a sinner lacks the power of prayer prayed by someone who is sinless – Mother Mary.
Of course, usually most of our prayers are prayed directly to God, for example, the Mass and the majority of the prayers we say each day.
However, we always have the freedom to go to Mother Mary or some other intercessor. We do this for example at the Novena and in the Rosary.
This freedom, most of us use – with the blessing of the good God!
Was Mother Mary really sinless?
Yes, really sinless.
More than that only was Mother Mary free of sin, she was also full of grace. This God-given privilege is called her Immaculate Conception.
It should surprise none of us. If we were able to choose our own mothers, wouldn’t we choose the most perfect woman we could find?
God could not choose the most perfect of women for his Son’s mother, He could personally form her so that she would be the most perfect.
This He did, making sure she was free of sin and full of grace.
Who are we to begrudge the good God this wonderful use of his power?.
Do we pray to pictures and statues of Mother Mary?
Of course not.
Pictures are made of canvas or paper. Statues are cut from wood or stone or marble. Prayer to such objects does not make sense. They cannot hear, still less help us!
If we do not pray to pictures and statues, what do we do?
We pray before them. Just as we use photographs to remind us of those we know or love, so we may use pictures and statues to remind us of Mother Mary, when we speak to her in prayer.
Most people find pictures and status wonderful helps to fight distractions during prayer. The mind tends to wander less.
Try it and see!
What actually happens when we pray to Mother Mary?
Let us begin by saying what does not happen.
Mary does not, as it were, reach into her pocket, take out our request and give it to us. She lacks the power to grant our requests. She is a creature. She is not the Creator.
When we pray to Mother Mary, we are really saying to her, “Will you who are so close and dear to your Son speak to him on my behalf? Will you ask him to mediate with his Father for me in this need?”
Precisely because Mother Mary is so close and dear to her Son, that Son listens with the greatest attention.
Why Mother Mary is called “a model of the Church”?
The Church is like a mother. She brings forth Christians, children of God by Baptism. The ideal mother on whom the Church should model herself is Mother Mary who conceived and brought forth Christ. Her virtues, especially her faith, her dedicated obedience to God, her self-giving service provide the pattern, the ideal for the Church.
Not only is Our Lady the model of what the Church ought to be during her pilgrimage here on earth, but also the model of what the church will be in heaven. In other words, Just as Our Lady is now forever united to Christ in heaven so will the Church one day be.
Mary demonstrates what Christ came on earth to do. He came to redeem humankind. Our Lady co-operated perfectly with God and in her the redemption had its full effect. She is the perfect Christian; and looking at her we see “a sign of sure hope and solace for the pilgrim people of God”.
Apparitions of Our Lady of Good Health at Vailankanni
This Shrine has been dedicated to Our Lady of Good Health known as Annai Vailankanni in Tamil(local language). The Apparitions of Our Mother at Vailankanni has been the inspiration to found this Shrine. The history behind the global fame of Our Lady of Good Health is founded on three events that took place intermittently since the 16th Century at Vailankanni, in Nagapattinam district, in India.